Language Speaks

The language we use reveals the beliefs of our body..and those beliefs are the foundation of the lives we create.

We are unconscious beings regardless of what we prefer to believe. We often give purposeful thought to choices and give no thought to how we formed the basis for the “this or that” viewpoint we use to choose. We are born into a living belief system of our family and easily adopt those beliefs as our own. As we live through the years we adapt those beliefs to form to our experiences and we abandon some and create others of our own. Some purposefully. Most not.

There are two aspects to language I want to convey in this writing. And I know I can be esoteric so read slow …. open your mind… The first is how direct language proclaims your true belief.

I often hold people to think on a statement and question it. Myself included. When you hear the word “but” in a sentence.. there is generally something being cancelled out. I’ve spoken on this before and it still captivates me. An easy example would be receiving an invite to a party that you don’t wish to attend. Instead of simply defining with a “thank you for thinking of me”, we’re more apt to say “I’ve love to but…. some sort of reason/excuse”. We think this is the way to be kind. Lying before speaking the truth is not kind.

To move forward and closer to the things that matter most to us, we absolutely must align with truth… our truth. Become mindful of your language. Yes, it takes time. You are coaching yourself into a new way of speaking. And in doing so, you’ll be uncovering truths that have lingered in the shadows of your awareness. And quite often there will be some evaluating to do.

The second aspect of language to be aware of is comparison. “Reason” is the word spoken and it’s a live wire. We come to our “reason” for a decision by way of comparison… We like this choice over that choice “because”…. and that “because” is generally connected to a dislike or a “like less” perspective. Obviously we need to use some tools to select our path of choice. Is there a reason to bring in comparison and dislike though? I don’t feel so.

Energetically, we align more powerfully to the potential of our goal when we have a connection to it fully from the positive. It’s important we avoid the accidental hurdle of having to overcome an unconscious negative. An example of this would be developing a business to “get out of” the job you have. To experience days of schedule flexibility or the opportunity to work from anywhere “instead of” the predictable hours and location you have. Instead, what if your FULL focus for the new business was to align with your calling and to enjoy the journey of creation and connection to clients. What if when you accomplished a step it was revered and celebrated as though no alternative had ever been? That’s the way to honor choice and allow the goal to have its own independent identity.

So let me leave you with two-step foundation of language. Practice and play with these and have fun with the moments you’ll find yourself shining light onto the shade.

First, watch your “but”. When you hear it, repeat what you said and dissect the lie within it, then eliminate it. Secondly, develop your purpose of choice fully and only from the intended gain and experience of it.